'Jon & Kate Plus 8' Dad's Affair Confirmed

'Jon & Kate Plus 8' Dad's Affair Confirmed-photo

After many rumors and some photographic evidence that was hard to deny, it's been confirmed that Jon & Kate Plus 8 dad Jon Gosselin has been having an affair with Deanna Hummel.

In the new issue of Us Weekly, five people close to the situation share their story in hopes to set the record straight. Deanna's older brother and roommate Jason claims he just wants to protect his younger sister. He shares, "She's a nice girl, not a homewrecker. He is a bad liar. This isn't healthy for her. But she is refusing to help herself, so here I am trying to help her myself. I hope this clears the air."

Jon, 32, met Deanna, a third grade school teacher, while at the Chill Lounge in Reading, Pennsylvania in mid-January. After sending each other $3 shots (classy), the two began having a sexual relationship. 

Jon would come over to Deanna's house, where, Jason says, they would "pretty much stay locked away like two teenagers. It was weird. He's a grown man. 

He added, "A lot of the time, it was pretty, um, gross listening to her, you know, um — how do I say this? The walls are thin. Let’s just say that. I mean, no one wants to hear his sister having sex, let alone with a married dude who's, like, almost twice her age and who has eight kids and a maybe-crazy wife. Ick. Nast."

Jon and his wife Kate have been married since 1999, and are the subject of the popular reality show about their life raising their twin girls and sextuplets. 

 

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  • Nadia
    Nadia

    OK I Just Watched seasons 1 thru 3 of Jon & Kate plus 8 and in EVERY episode she is always yelling at him..I feel bad for Jon and the Kids..OMG her kids are not alowed to get dirty..They are little kids ..wow..Kate you need counseling on how to be a Mother and a wife..I have been married 21 Years and i have 2 grown kids and if i EVER treated my husband the way you treat Jon I would hope he would leave me.. Jon get out while you can Buddy!! She has 8 children , not just 1 or 2 but 8!!!! And he didnt leave first, no what he did was cheat first and then leave her,, That is so upsetting, she is doing her best to organize her family and raise them to became amazing adults you can't just let them do everything they want. And when she is alone she has to be strict and punctual, you can't have all the kids running around and so when Jon is there she has to stay that way , You cant send mixed signals. I think he blew it , she is an amazing wife and mother!

  • rosie
    rosie

    i know hes the father.im not his fan. but be nice to eachother.for the children. it easye now .your not live ing to gether; this is for them. your grate an very beautful ; make your life happy; laugh,love , an be happy.,,,

  • rosemarie
    rosemarie

    hi kate; you are beautful; if any one ,walked in your shoes. thay would wake up an smell the coffee. dont go by people in this world .most of them are sick. you know what your doing . an no one has the right to give you any ,hate ,thay are so sick . just love them as you do . your damed if you do ,an damed if you dont.. thats how it is...

  • Iulia
    Iulia

    Jon has always had an inappropriate attitude towards the entire situation of him being the father. He was not totally involved. He always said he couldn't wait for Monday to come, for him to go to work and get away from all the craziness. He always enjoyed getting away from his kids. His laziness and selfish attitude really nedded a strong hand like kate's or otherwise the kids would have starved to death! It is clear that all the responsibility was too much for him.

  • latviaman
    latviaman

    Watching this abroad and proably months behind i feel there are faults on both sides, however, I see Kate had a tummy tuck, should have got a mouth tuck as well!!!!

  • Anto
    Anto

    I totally agree with Liz. I mean, even if she is a nag, he chose to marry her, he should have thought at this, right?! They have 8 kids, not 2, so it would be hard for them to see their father with another woman and not to be there with them, especially because they're little. So yeah, there are better ways to deal with that. Is Jon to be blamed!

  • ullokseng
    ullokseng

    without fuel suggests engine below society affected relatively

  • shane
    shane

    If Jon had asked for a divorce, Kate wouldn't have paid any attention to him. She's so into herself that she would push it aside like she does with everything that doesn't fit into her plans.It must be so exhausting for him to even try to open his mouth around her--SHE MUST BE THE BOSS. Unless she can find some fool who will take it, she will be alone once the kids are grown.

  • fred
    fred

    i cant believe Jon would do that. this is going to scar the kids and kate for life. they are going to be embarrassed for the rest of their lives. Kate might be irratiable and mean but right now jon diserves it. With Jon being popular in all, he should have known that he was going to get caught. I hope Jon reads some of these notes to maybe get it through his head that it was wrong. When you marry someone and have kids with them, you need to take care of them and take care of the wife threw thick and thin not go out clubbing with ladies almost two times younger than you. You and Kate exchanged vows and promised to be with each other for ever. You better work your marrage out and seek some counceling. Seriously Jon!!! I give them counceling back hand Kate . and tell her stfu ... promblem solved

  • FRED
    FRED

    anyways, Jon is such an ***hole i mean what the hell, does he have sh*t for brains or what, i mean seriously grow up, you have 8 kids, and while poor kate is dealing with the kids he's out acting like a kid, really nice ***hole, anyways i feel sorry for you, have a you ever heard of child support moron. Oh yeah the homewrecker is one fugly biatch, lol!!! Just expressing myself! POOR KATE WHAT THE F**K KATE IS THE UGLY BITCH AND A BITCH SHE DON'T CARE OF THE KIDS THE MANNY DOES .. YOU STUPID HO.... ALL YOU WOMEN ARE THE IT'S ALL ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT YOU WANT EQUAL RIGHT PAY FOR THE KIDS YOURSELF

  • fred
    fred

    Dumb bitch,shouda killed the snitch!Kate is such a prude,guess she needs an asian dildo to FILL the void.TWO WORDS....CHILD SUPPORT>>>>HAHAHAHAHA Not if she makes more HAHHAHAHAHAH

  • fred
    fred

    jonh, i think that you are a sorry excuse of a man.......i can tell you that your kids will most likely agree. my dad cheeted on my mom with some dirty slut an i hate him for it.so way to go you just ruined your whole life. an i hope that she leaves you an you doe a sorry lonely man! because what you did was low an F***ED up! an i hope that you pay for it for the rest of your life! Typical womwn resonce and now you know why men cheat all they care about is the money .... all men love dirty little sluts ...now shut up Aunt Bee

  • fred
    fred

    Okay, to all these guys who are praising Jon for cheating on Kate are really f*cking stupid.You're pretty much saying that it is okay for a man to have an affair, go against everything he promised to his wife, wreck his children's life, as well as his own, just because his wife nags a lot. Like big f*cking deal.The bottom line is, he made a promise to his wife and family to be there until the day he dies, but instead he's running off with some hussy as an easy way out. He's a p*ssy.ALL THOSE CHEATING MEN ARE CLEARLY JUST BOYS AND NOT READY FOR A REAL RELATIONSHIP! GROW UP AND STOP BEING AFRAID OF LIFE! FACE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES!You all need to get your heads examined. Women cheat more then men they are sluts ... stfu

  • fred
    fred

    Jon does everything. Good for you Jon if you had an affair. Kate is the most overbearing person I have ever seen. She treats him like a child. All she does is boss him around. Jon is a good catch. Any woman would be lucky to have him. Aman!!!

  • fre
    fre

    [quote=med school]HOW DARE JON DO THAT TO KATE... THEY HAVE A FAMILY TOGETHER. ITS GOING TO TEAR THAT FAMILY APART AND THAT OTHER GIRL IS A HOMEWRECKING GOLDDIGGIN HOE Shes HOTT and horny and thats what men want...and Kates a pig and a bitch .. thats what she gets

  • f4ed
    f4ed

    Cheating is wrong. It doesn't matter what you think of Kate. Any man who cheats on his wife especially the father of eight children is absoutely useless and doesn't deserve anyone's respect or support. Be a man and get a divorce than you can run around with whomever you want. Be a good woman and treat your man right !!!!

  • fred
    fred

    Come on you guys!!!! I've seen their show, and Kate can be some of the things you mention here (negative ones), but I am a mother and sometimes, it is very stressful (and I have only two kids, let alone EIGHT), and you may behave negatively, especially with your husband, because certainly you don't want to do this to your kids, BUT THE POINT IS..... HE IS CHEATING ON HER!!!!, They have children together, people feel sorry for him, but it is Kate who stays at home and put up with them, all day long, I am sure both of them have their hands full, but she is by far the one getting the worse part in this deal. YOU ARE SO CHAUVINISTIC!!,I am not saying she is a saint or anything like it, she is just human,and she can drive him crazy; BUT THERE IS NOT EXCUSE FOR CHEATING ON YOUR WIFE!! He is just a douche with no principles, THEY ARE IN THIS TOGETHER!!! REMEMBER??? you had the kids deal with it .. she deserves everything she keeps she drove him out ... all mothers suck now a days... women always have the same excus ... how did your your manage

  • fred
    fred

    He chose to marry Kate and put up with her the way she is...what he is doing is so sad to the kids...I pray to Jesus Christ that my husband never does that to me (baby on the way in 4 weeks)also they are Christian he should know better! Like all weman they change after they get theit hooks in you and get kids cuz thats all they want

  • fred
    fred

    i completely agree with you.it's like why would you even think about doing that????he is gonna get it.get it from fans,family,used-to-be-friends,and especially the poparizzi.JON YOU SUCK HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO YOUR ADORABLE 8 CHILDREN????????? he can make more kids ... why didn't Kate think about her kids when she was treating their dad like a dog

  • fred
    fred

    #monaI can’t believe what a se fish a** Jon turned out to be. Any one who can go out and ruin the ir family like that does not des erve them. If he was unhappy he sho uld have gotten out. What a sel fish disgusting human being. I hop e he loses everything. His wife, ch ldren, money, everything. Was it wor th it Jon? I hope the little tra mp he was with loses her job. I kn w I wouldn't want someone like tha t teaching my third grader. Tea chers are suppose to have morals. what you said you mean it about Kate right

  • fred
    fred

    How about "Kate plus 8 minus her douche abg husband", you ***holes. Maybe Kate is a "tyrant" because Jon is too immature to raise a family without being micro-managed. no she is a bitch plan and simple and my guess you are too

  • Dawn Cassidy
    Dawn Cassidy

    It's all for the ratings, come on people, get a life!

  • Tonya
    Tonya

    I JUST WANT TO SAY jOHN YOU CAN COME BRING YOUR KIDS AND LIVE WITH ME.

  • Noneya
    Noneya

    The fact that you people care about what happens to this family tells me you involve yourself too much in other people's business. Yes, they put themselves up on a high horse parading their family like it should be emulated, and it does not surprise me that America is so obsessed with their fall from grace, it's typical. Whatever the case, I think it's sad... sad for them, and sad for you. Don't you have your own kid to go spend time with, or are they watching T.V. or playing a video game right now?

  • jody
    jody

    kate needs to calm down some. she is to uptight!!!! chill with the kids more!!!!

  • kathy
    kathy

    Oh and one more thing, Jon should get the house, the kids, child support, and alimony. Let's see how Kate likes that. She wants to leave how many days out of the month well then baby start paying up. Jon quit his job for you Kate so now dig deep into your pockets baby and pay up or shut the F--k UP

  • kathy
    kathy

    I feel bad for saying it but I really think Jon should leave Kate. Maybe then she would realize what she lost. But while she has all this money she won't know what real life is like. She needs to go back to just being regular people again without all the money. No guy in there right mind would put up with all her sh*t. I f she met someone right now they would probably be with her so they could be in the limelite. I'm watching the show right now and like other people have said in the past Kate is all dolled up. How funny, she has no idea where she is going but makes sure she is all dressed up heels and all. And wear is Jon in the woods with his kids Of course. I'm shocked she didn't ream Jon out for one of the kids getting hurt. :the kid: you worded how abused people feel perfectly I couldn't have said it better.I wish people could know (without going through it of course)how hard it is on a person, man or woman. I now have trust issues even though I'm with the best guy ever. till next time have a great night everyone

  • Jean
    Jean

    I loved to watch the show when it first began to come on. I enjoyed watching the sextuplets. The twins on the other hand, with all the meltdowns that they have is untolerable. I also love John. I love the episodes that Kate is rarely in. The way she treats Jon is just crazy. A man needs to feel loved and wanted. She is always yelling and slapping. On the interviews she is always cutting him off. How do you expect to get respect if you don't give any? I knew a long time ago that this was going to happen, but I didn't think it would be like this. Besides why poor Kate, yeah...she literaly had the eight kids but Jon is apart of everything, even if they do get a divorce Jon would not be the kind to just leave and not be there for the kids. They would have more fun and love with him anyway.

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    I'm sorry I'm so mad right now I forgot a word. What I ment to say is if you were never abused than STOP knockin JON once again people kathy is a very wise woman and she speaks the truth i was verbally abused as a child by the uncle and aunt who raised me and i can tell you that its no less of an abuse then physical my ex wife and her parents were also verbally abusive and it makes you start to question yourself because you try to be a good person but you keep getting treated like crap and it slowly starts to wear you down and it takes a strong person to get over it i pray Jon you find this inner strength and move on with your life i am curious as to if kathy and others think they should stay together or if he should leave her

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    What people don't understand is that no human can put up with all that abuse and not snap. What Jon did was wrong but lets think about it he needed to feel like a man. He has ALWAYS treated he with the upmost respect. He NEVER put her down on camera as she did to him. And if you watched the last show if she said one more time how she did the party by herself I was going to scream. Kate acts as though he never did anything for her.Please give me a break. When they go on all those trips where was Jon yep thats right with the kids and where was Kate oh ya at the spa with NO kids.When was it ever going to be "Jon" time? Never!!!! I wish she would just step back open her eyes and what she had instead of being "poor me poor kate"Kate you need to give Jon more credit for what he does. Let's face it he does NOTHING right in your eyes. God you even yelled at him for breathing wrong on one episode. Your not perfect (no one is) cut him some slack i totally agree with kathy and its refreshing to see that a woman can look past the genders involved and look at the specific situation instead i only hope the kids are taken out of the spotlight, that they get counseling, and that the mess is cleared up as best as it can be right now the only problem is she wants to continue the show and they are under contract and all

  • whatever3
    whatever3

    I liked that line better when Joel McHale used it. OMG, that is exactly what I thought!

  • christina
    christina

    I think that everybody needs to leave kate alone and let her get on with her life and raise her kids

  • kathy
    kathy

    Do all of you really have SH** for brains? Its really a sad statement of our society when people keep thinking that it is so wrong to cheat on someone and all, but that its perfectly okay to treat your spouse like old fried noodles. I still see that the majority of people out here, including the last poster, show no harsh feelings toward Kate at all, and this is wrong. As far as him choosing her, he made a mistake maybe or maybe tried all he could to please her and finally saw it was NO USE. When they got married, THEY DID NOT EVEN HAVE ANY KIDS, and maybe they were both DIFFERENT in many ways, I am SURE he would not have married her knowing he would be a HUMAN CHEW TOY on tv every night. They did not plan on having EIGHT KIDS, maybe she should have kept her panties on! Plans change, no reason to become a bitch over it. SHE is the one you all who wants to CONTINUE the show (why?) while the nice Korean man says he wants the cameras all turned off. So SHE IS THE ONE PIMPING THE KIDS OUT, all hoytie toitie on her throne dictating all she wants done, trying to pick up every Tom and Harry while at the same time EXPLOITING HER INNOCENT KIDS on tv every week. But I guess that is okay ACCORDING TO THE PEOPLE, since first she IS a woman and second its OKAY to abuse your spouse and all but GOD FORBID they then want out and feel trapped and end up making a MISTAKE, MESSED UP FROM ALL THE CONFUSION. I agree with everything you have to say I only wish everyone could see it our way

  • kathy
    kathy

    I'm sorry I'm so mad right now I forgot a word. What I ment to say is if you were never abused than STOP knockin JON

  • kathy
    kathy

    I'm sorry but if you have never been abused you really should knockin Jon. I was!. I know how he feels almost exactly like Jon but mine wasn't on tv The person " the kid" is right on what he says. kate is never nice to any one the tv crew her family and most of all her kids.I do feel bad for the kids but they will be happier if their parents split. I know cuz my kids see how much happier I am now which inturn makes them happy. Jon is a great dad and puts his kids first but he needs his insanity to be a great dad.Please I beg all of you people who think Jon was wrong please go buy all the last shows and watch them again open minde this time. Jon has been walked on and abuse over and over again. He was lossing himself. He looks horrible now due to all this sh*t. I'm sure he feels bad for what he did but really in the inside I'm sure he feels like a human now, not like a piece of sh*t. Jon I still think your a great guy but most of all YOU ARE A GREAT DAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't let anyone ever tell you different

  • kathy
    kathy

    What people don't understand is that no human can put up with all that abuse and not snap. What Jon did was wrong but lets think about it he needed to feel like a man. He has ALWAYS treated he with the upmost respect. He NEVER put her down on camera as she did to him. And if you watched the last show if she said one more time how she did the party by herself I was going to scream. Kate acts as though he never did anything for her.Please give me a break. When they go on all those trips where was Jon yep thats right with the kids and where was Kate oh ya at the spa with NO kids.When was it ever going to be "Jon" time? Never!!!! I wish she would just step back open her eyes and what she had instead of being "poor me poor kate"Kate you need to give Jon more credit for what he does. Let's face it he does NOTHING right in your eyes. God you even yelled at him for breathing wrong on one episode. Your not perfect (no one is) cut him some slack

  • denice
    denice

    i dont blame jon .... she got him to quit his job he loved .... but he did it for her and he is the 1 home all the time with the kids !not that bitch and she cant get sh*t he does everything for the kids not her ..... she been screwing her body gaurd what goes around comes around and i wish he hadnt have done it but a man has needs . if u dont take care of him some one else willlll stop blaming him .... put it where it belongs on her ..... have a great day jon wish u the best

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Do all of you really have SH** for brains? Its really a sad statement of our society when people keep thinking that it is so wrong to cheat on someone and all, but that its perfectly okay to treat your spouse like old fried noodles. I still see that the majority of people out here, including the last poster, show no harsh feelings toward Kate at all, and this is wrong. As far as him choosing her, he made a mistake maybe or maybe tried all he could to please her and finally saw it was NO USE. When they got married, THEY DID NOT EVEN HAVE ANY KIDS, and maybe they were both DIFFERENT in many ways, I am SURE he would not have married her knowing he would be a HUMAN CHEW TOY on tv every night. They did not plan on having EIGHT KIDS, maybe she should have kept her panties on! Plans change, no reason to become a bitch over it. SHE is the one you all who wants to CONTINUE the show (why?) while the nice Korean man says he wants the cameras all turned off. So SHE IS THE ONE PIMPING THE KIDS OUT, all hoytie toitie on her throne dictating all she wants done, trying to pick up every Tom and Harry while at the same time EXPLOITING HER INNOCENT KIDS on tv every week. But I guess that is okay ACCORDING TO THE PEOPLE, since first she IS a woman and second its OKAY to abuse your spouse and all but GOD FORBID they then want out and feel trapped and end up making a MISTAKE, MESSED UP FROM ALL THE CONFUSION.

  • stephanie
    stephanie

    Kate is always such a b@@@@ to Jon. I would have left her a llllloooooooonnnnnnngggggggg time ago. She talks to him like he's a child.

  • melissa
    melissa

    GO FIGURE, LITTLE MAN, SMALL FEET, LITTLE D***, BIG ATTITUDE, TO MAKE UP FOR HIS SHORTCOMINGS, HE FOUND KATE TO SHOW HIM HOW TO BE A MAN, WHO STAPS IT ON EVERYNIGHT, DEFINATELY NOT HIM, HE HAS NO SET TO USE, GOOD THING IT ALL CAN BE BOUGHT NOW, OR HE WOULD HAVE NO KIDS TO BE PIMPING OUT!!!!!!

  • melissa
    melissa

    NEW TITLE FOR THE SHOW, *******************GUESS WHAT DISEASE DADDY BROUGHT HOME TO THE SHREW THIS WEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • melissa
    melissa

    Let you kids have a life without their parents embarassing them on national television everyweek, wtih he is doing the school teacher, what about mommy!!!!! If you want to manwhore around them be a big enough of a man to walk away and quit hiding what a loser you are!!!! Bet you can't wait for your kids to show your grandkids hey, look how my parents earned there money, put us to bed and go bang one out with the school teacher so we all get to hear about it at school and on national tv, then denie it like you are to ashamed of who you are banging. If you wanted to hide it then dont' put your ugly face on national tv,and say that made a bad choice after you got caught. The bad choice was breaking your marriage vowels and pimping your kids and them going to the barQQQQQQ

  • melissa
    melissa

    They can't be too worried about there kids when they discuss the entire situation on national television. Who cares what they are going threw they need to put the kids first and got to private marriage counsling, actually pay money for something instead of living off there kids like a pimp with 8 hookers raking in the money for them to live the high life on. Did you see Johns new 300 Z he would have never gotten that if he didn't stop working to become the HOUSE BITCH!!!! I wonder if the is the one who gets the headaches every night also. Get some balls and man up, you made them you take care of them and the situation your in, you knew what she was like when you married her, u picked her, now live up the vowels you made and just renewed. It doesn't say until you can buy something better with your kids pimp money!!!!!

  • smiler
    smiler

    "Author M. Gary Neuman, a family counselor is the creator of 2 x 2 Intensive--an innovative approach to couples therapy. Conducting a study of 200 husbands, he interviewed 100 physical cheaters and 100 faithful non-cheaters. His findings found that the number one reason why men cheat is "emotional dissatisfaction" (48%)--participants cited lack of appreciativeness, feeling unwanted, or being stuck in a "no-win situation." The primary reason men cheat according to this study is "unappreciation". I agree, Jon should have gotten a divorced before he saw other women, but who's to say he didn't tell her he wanted one and she told him no so off he went in search. Watching the shows for the past 4 seasons, it's dead on that she never really appreciated him and all that he did. She always patted herself on the back for all the good work she did and patted herself on the back again anytime Jon did anything right, because she directed him to do it her way.

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Its not entirely true that she does everything because she has admitted to traveling alot ( for example on her book tour ) while he is with the kids on his own. He quit his job two years ago to help out with his kids because she could not handle the kids on her own. Also, if you look at the episodes, its HER yelling at the nice Korean man, her nagging, her having to have all things her way and he rolls with all the punches all the time, finally he just snapped and had enough, and then he ended up making a mistake that will effect them all now. You NEVER see HIM yell at her at all, he is always trying to make light of things and joke with her and she still always walks around with a stick up her tight derriere. She was totally playing all this up for the cameras on the last episodes. So again he should not have cheated, but she is so not the innocent young White woman either! I don't get how all these people can be so hard on him and so not hard on her!

  • The Shaggy Marlin
    The Shaggy Marlin

    [quote=Get your Priorities Straight]1. They need to forget the show and get into councelling if they really care about the kids and their vows. 2. Kate needs to resist the temptation to always be in charge. She should be Jon's helper/partner not the leader of the pack. This is totally opposite of her nature but if she really loves those kids and God she will work hard to do it. 3, Jon needs to do what he needs to make a life that will be good for the family. That includes selling the big house and going back to a simpler life. Maybe he should even put his foot down about giving permission for his kids to be filmed. Take charge man! 4. They both are very self centered self serving people, which has been amplified by all the TLC attention. 5. They both need to seek the councel of a older Godly man and woman who can give them support not of the media type. My guess though is Kate will continue to get off on all the attention and perks of being a TV celebrity and Jon will continue to look to get his masculine ego stroked by anyone who will. Just an FYI, your god has nothing to do with this. Did you know that there are societies where there is no "father"? Those people have been getting along fine for thousands of years without you trying to push your fairy tales on them. Oh and just for the record, people in societies where the diety is female tend to be the much more peaceful ones. Take an anthropology class and you might understand what I'm talking about. Remember you're an atheist too.... All that being said someone needs to take Jon out for a beer and stick Kate in a mental institution until she has her control issues taken care of.

  • Bethany Butler
    Bethany Butler

    I watch the show myself and I will totally agree that Kate can be a bit snippy to John at times. However, the fact still remains that if he cared about his children very much then he would have taken their feelings into consideration. A divorce is hard enough for a child to go through but knowing that your dad chose some fling over being there with his children and keeping their happiness in mind is just heartless. If he would have put some morals into his decision than maybe he would have let his children get over the fact that they were possibly seperating before he tried to show them that when your tired of being married, you just go cheating on your wife. That isnt the way you handle things and truthfully it makes matters worse. All of these ignorant comments on here regarding Kate being rude to her husband at times,should give John justification on cheating on his wife is the same ignorant thoughts that has lead this world where it is today. Can a child depend on anyone if they cant depend on their parents? These children look up to their parents and if you watch the show then you can tell that they are very smart and well rounded children. It's hard enough trying to accomplish that with an average size family let alone 8 kids. It is very obvious that they are loved but honestly you dont see much of John doing alot of parenting other than a little stop this and that here and there. Kate is usually the one making plans to go on trips and to children places like Crayola Factory and things FOR HER CHILDREN. John has this sit back and watch approach until Kate tells him what to do so he should have taken the lead sometimes if he didnt want to be directed like a child. Honestly how many adults do you think could handle taking 8 kids to something like that and then planning to do something else with them over and over again knowing the stress it can bring. Both parties have some blame to account for but regardless of all that John chose to take a coward's way out by not being a parent and showing his children that all things in life are hard to do,but you have to give it your best shot through thick and thin times before taking the easy way out. Then if things dont work after giving it your best then be a responsible person and end it the right way. I hope for the kids sake that they continue with or without John in making the best life possible for these kids.

  • Get your Priorities Straight
    Get your Priorities Straight

    1. They need to forget the show and get into councelling if they really care about the kids and their vows. 2. Kate needs to resist the temptation to always be in charge. She should be Jon's helper/partner not the leader of the pack. This is totally opposite of her nature but if she really loves those kids and God she will work hard to do it. 3, Jon needs to do what he needs to make a life that will be good for the family. That includes selling the big house and going back to a simpler life. Maybe he should even put his foot down about giving permission for his kids to be filmed. Take charge man! 4. They both are very self centered self serving people, which has been amplified by all the TLC attention. 5. They both need to seek the councel of a older Godly man and woman who can give them support not of the media type. My guess though is Kate will continue to get off on all the attention and perks of being a TV celebrity and Jon will continue to look to get his masculine ego stroked by anyone who will.

  • meeee
    meeee

    hahahahahaha that last comment was hilarious

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Hmmm, you people who are going like: "Way to go John!!"... i wonder if you are all males...i'd like to see you all do that in YOUR relationship. tell me how it works out.=D Anyone who thinks it was acceptable for him to cheat does not even deserve to be in ANY relationship of ANY kind, she is not a nice person but he reacted wrong in every way and now again its time to work out the future and think of the kids and not their anger for one another or about the show and all.

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Hmmm, you people who are going like: "Way to go John!!"... i wonder if you are all males...i'd like to see you all do that in YOUR relationship. tell me how it works out.=D Anyone who thinks it was acceptable for him to cheat does not even deserve to be in ANY relationship of ANY kind, she is not a nice person but he reacted wrong in every way and now again its time to work out the future and think of the kids and not their anger for one another or about the show and all.

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    [quote=ms wade]I'm wondering why he waited this long to step out on her! If she would just sht the F&*( up and stop demeaning him and talking down to him there might be a different outcome. The way she talks to him is ridiculous. I wish he would man up and tell her to shut the f*)* on national tv. I swear if this woman ever spoke to me like that she'd be lying on the floor. On the season premiere she made a comment about not knowing how they got to that place; whether it was something she did and not knowing. IT WAS EVERYTHING YOU DID!!! And said!!! OMG!!!As a woman, I shouldn't be saying these things, but damn Kate SHUT THE F*** UP!!! Thank you for showing me the kind of wife I don't want to be. It's a sad situation for you, but it is what it is He cant tell her to shut up because its not within the Asian culture to do that, it is not considered correct behavior, geesh he cant even joke with her because shes always got something up that tight heinie of hers. He felt like he could not talk to her calmly I think and no one can blame him for not wanting to based on how she snarls at him all the time for SILLY things GOD how would she react to something like " Kate I am not happy " He felt like he was stuck, and with the lack of communication there he made a wrong choice, but we all make mistakes. He is still a nice Korean man and she should be ashamed of herself.

  • hmmm
    hmmm

    Hmmm, you people who are going like: "Way to go John!!" ... i wonder if you are all males... i'd like to see you all do that in YOUR relationship. tell me how it works out.=D

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Yes the nice Korean man ( sorry I called him Chinese my wife corrected me ) DID choose this " live one " for his wife, but I dont think he signed up for ALL of this. We think that he agreed to do this for 2 years or so, but she was so intent on keeping it going that he gave up his job and stayed at home with her. He has tried and tried to please her but she cannot be pleased by anyone except her own self. If you look at the episodes closely, HE is ALWAYS the one doing 90 percent of the work while she hovers over him like a keen hawk not only telling him what to do but telling him what he does wrong. So no he should not have cheated as most people I am sure would agree but the white woman here has to take alot of the blame too. He was trying to give her what she wanted but she does not seem to respect or listen to him. WHY is she so INTENT on keeping up with the show if he does not want to? If my wife was in the show with me and SHE wanted to stop I would stop without any questions asked. This is selfish of her and also being missed in all of this mess.

  • mady
    mady

    this is RIDICULOUS! can u really trust Us magazine?! if u do then ur a douchebag! i sympathize for this family and i will pray for them to not let this attention affect their kids and their lives.

  • The Shaggy Marlin
    The Shaggy Marlin

    Ok, I'm going to be the one to say it. I don't give a damn about the kids. Frankly they should have culled a few. Anyone having a litter of kids, whether it's the Octomom having them all at once or some idiots like J&K spreading them out over a few years, needs to be shot or at least sterilized. That being said, Kate needs to be committed because she has obvious mental problems and Jon needs to get some friends and go out for a two week bender that includes screwing many hot teachers half his age.

  • $$$
    $$$

    We are all speculators and as with most reality tv, it doesn't necessarily represent reality. Only they know what they are like with and without the cameras. Two wrongs don't make a right, not matter what. If he was unhappy he should have stopped the show, changed jobs, asked their pastor for counseling. The alternatives are endless yet he chose something that is frighteningly common these days, (the wide road). To top it off he sounds like bill clinton, " I did not have sexual relations with that woman." Whether he did or did not, will ultimately be uncovered and brought to the light. Is Kate a bit high strung? sure. Would I have picked her for my wife, Not likely. But he chose her, his choice. Whether he wants to own his choices or not is up to him. He accepted the show, the notoriatey, the fame, and the money. Stop being and Adam and blaming Kate for your choices. It's not too late; all things can work together for good to those who are the called according to His purpose.

  • Kayla
    Kayla

    i cant believe Jon would do that. this is going to scar the kids and kate for life. they are going to be embarrassed for the rest of their lives. Kate might be irratiable and mean but right now jon diserves it. With Jon being popular in all, he should have known that he was going to get caught. I hope Jon reads some of these notes to maybe get it through his head that it was wrong. When you marry someone and have kids with them, you need to take care of them and take care of the wife threw thick and thin not go out clubbing with ladies almost two times younger than you. You and Kate exchanged vows and promised to be with each other for ever. You better work your marrage out and seek some counceling. Seriously Jon!!!

  • Shinobi
    Shinobi

    The problem here is that Jon could put up with the kids and Kate's attitude while he had a job and had somewhere to go during the day. Now hes home constantly and has to deal with Kate being gone for days on end and the kids screaming constantly. Its not a healthy situation to have either parent gone for too long because resentment builds when that happens and that leads to fights and cheating and divorce. If you love your spouse you stick with them no matter what. But you also need to have at least a 2 year courtship so that you can see exactly what that person is like before you attach yourself to them permanently. If Jon had known kate was going to be this irate with him every day and that he was going to be turned into a house frau of a husband he wouldnt have married her. Which brings me to Kate (and lots of the "empowered women" of this age)... if you dont treat your husbands like they are your one and only love of your life all the time (which includes losing arguments so that they can be right because remember men have large egos), then they will slowly resent you and end up cheating on you or hiring a hitman.

  • kayla
    kayla

    OK! jon and kate have been through soo much so leave them alone god they have a famliy did you ever think that jon and that girl were friends my mom kisses hugs and all that to her friends this is all a bunch bull sh*t just because thtere are some pictures and some people say some stuff dont mean its true LEAVE THEM ALONE they never did anything to you soo what if they did cheat its none of are buisness and kate may be angry and moody but so would i if i had 8 kids you guys are affecting their famliy!!

  • ms wade
    ms wade

    I'm wondering why he waited this long to step out on her! If she would just sht the F&*( up and stop demeaning him and talking down to him there might be a different outcome. The way she talks to him is ridiculous. I wish he would man up and tell her to shut the f*)* on national tv. I swear if this woman ever spoke to me like that she'd be lying on the floor. On the season premiere she made a comment about not knowing how they got to that place; whether it was something she did and not knowing. IT WAS EVERYTHING YOU DID!!! And said!!! OMG!!! As a woman, I shouldn't be saying these things, but damn Kate SHUT THE F*** UP!!! Thank you for showing me the kind of wife I don't want to be. It's a sad situation for you, but it is what it is

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Right so the kids ARE the most important aspect of this so why NOT an open marraige? Allegedly both cheated and I don't see them reconciling voluntarily and peacefully. If they stay together as a couple JUST FOR THE KIDS either they will have to put on an act or be as mean to one another as they are now and avoidal prone and then the kids see that. That is not a good environment for the kids to grow up in. If the nice Chinese man leaves then she has eight kids all alone and that is too much for anyone, she is not after all the Octuplet mom. I don't see her leaving the house, so why not an open marraige? Then the kids stay together as does the family and then this woman and man are free to be themselves without added falseness and tension. They both love the kids and that is obvious and important. They maybe should have never started the show at all, but that is water under the bridge, the key is finding the BEST solution since none would be perfect at this point. I am eager to here what others think.

  • Meghan
    Meghan

    saying such negative things about both Kate and Jon is not going to do much good. both are to blame for the whole situation. its not one or the other its both. yes jon made a mistake. i dont care how "naggy" your wife is or whatever you want to call it, it gives a person no right to have an affair. but alas, who is this hurting??? the kids. they have 8 beautiful young kids and sadly this event is going to cause the kids a lot of grief later on down the road. so lets work on getting things cleared up for the kids sake!!!

  • thekid36
    thekid36

    Well Kate is the definition of high maintainence, and the nice Chinese man obviously has had enough of her temper that is frankly as hot as the Kung Pao. Yet he should not have cheated on her and have jeapordized the family as he did. The most important thing is the kids, and there are alot of eggrolls on the plate so to say. They need to apologize to one another, or maybe try an open marraige since they cant get along as they are and since leaving may not be practical. maybe that hot looking baby sitter can stay and live with them and give that nice Chinese man some of her special sauce. What about JOHN AND KATE PLUS A DATE?

  • Becky
    Becky

    I like how its "confirmed" because its in Us Weekly...not excactly a viable source.

  • Becky
    Becky

    I like how its "confirmed" because its in Us Weekly...not excactly a viable source.

  • BigBoy
    BigBoy

    To reply to Lety on how Jon doesn't knows how Kate feels...She gone on over 20 "business trips" while Jon stays home to watch the kids. I'm sure he's got help since he was cruisin 2am while Kate was away. But I also have notice near end of Last Season that Kate really doesn't play with the kids anymore. Kids run around by themselves or Jon takes them out hiking in the property while Kate...well where are you?

  • kayla
    kayla

    OK! jon and kate have been thourgh so much no this what did they do to you nuthing so leave them alone this is all a bunch of bull sh*t they have a family just because a few pictures and people say stuff dose not mean it's ture they could have been friends my mom kisses her friends wow big deal leave them alone please god dam what else do they have to go through

  • BigBoy
    BigBoy

    I noticed that the "new" Kate is all dressed up for the show's interview/narrative with very revealing skirt where as before she was dressed like a soccer mom with t-shirts and shorts/pants. Wonder if all the hollywood fame has gotten to her head. It's really a shame when newfound rich goes to their head. I believe it was 75,000 an episode last season and no doubt up the ante this season

  • $$$
    $$$

    The money wasn't worth it and neither was all the so-called blessings if it destroyes their faith and family. As christians, they need to both ask for forgiveness and grant each other forgiveness. Divorce or cheating wont fix a spirtual issue. I know that neither may read this. But I pray for them and their children. Life is full of heart aches and pain, with or without the spot light. But seeings as they both chose the spot light then live your faith out infront of it. Kate forgive Jon, and Jon forgive Kate. That is what a real marriage is really about, not perfection or the fallacy of it. Kate if you can't forgive your husband, how do you teach forgiveness to your children. Jon if you can't forgive your wife how do you teach that to your children. If you can't show forgiveness how to expect to be forgiven by your Lord and Savior? Luke 14:34 "Salt is good; but if the salt has lost it's flavor, how shall it be seasoned. It is neither fit for land nor for the dunghill, but men throw it out. He who has ears to hear, let him hear!"

  • joan
    joan

    Has Kate been an evil wench? Yes. Did she probably need to ride Jon to get him to help out with 8 kids? Yes because most men need a little riding. The whole show yesterday was ridiculous. Jon pitying himself because his wife is mean and made him quit his job. Boo hoo. Get a hobby if you're unhappy. His wife quit her job 8 years ago to raise kids. Why is it not fair they take turns. And Kate pitying herself. Boo hoo. A marriage takes work and you treated your husband like a dog in public. I do feel sorry for them. I can't imagine the amount of stress it takes to raise 8 kids. I personally couldn't do it. They should have gotten counseling when they had the sextuplets five years ago. If either cared about their relationship they would have. Instead they put it last and here they are now.

  • Pumkin_pie9
    Pumkin_pie9

    I can't wait to see the new show "John minus nine." I think Jon plus 8 minus Kate sounds cuter. He's being a better parent through all of this than she is.

  • Snorris
    Snorris

    I can't wait to see the new show "John minus nine." Watch a middle age man hit on girls half his age - LOSER! No thanks!

  • linda
    linda

    i am so sorry that things are the way they are .i will say it will hurt the show.everyone does things that are not ment to be,its hard to forgive.i love u guys

  • lety
    lety

    anyways, Jon is such an ***hole i mean what the hell, does he have sh*t for brains or what, i mean seriously grow up, you have 8 kids, and while poor kate is dealing with the kids he's out acting like a kid, really nice ***hole, anyways i feel sorry for you, have a you ever heard of child support moron. Oh yeah the homewrecker is one fugly biatch, lol!!! Just expressing myself!

  • Linda
    Linda

    my-self i think people give them some breathing room and leave them alone they will get thru this and people quit blameing one person it always takes two to mess up a relationship, time will heal kate you never forget but time will heal, and jon people can change both of you work on it both of you work on it you will make it im just a stranger but i have cried for you both and prayed for you both hang in there you can do,me and my husband did it, a little different then your circumstances always god first your familt children each other then finances nothing should come between you and him and your kids im routeing for you both. thanks linda

  • Daryl
    Daryl

    Dumb bitch,shouda killed the snitch!Kate is such a prude,guess she needs an asian dildo to FILL the void.TWO WORDS....CHILD SUPPORT>>>>HAHAHAHAHA

  • kathy
    kathy

    I have to say, I was abused the same a Jon and yes I cheated on my husband. I now feel what it means to be truely loved. No one knows what it feels to be abused mentally or verbally until it's done to you. Maybe now Kate will now look back and see what she's done. Don't feel bad for her she needs to know what she has done

  • morgan
    morgan

    jonh, i think that you are a sorry excuse of a man.......i can tell you that your kids will most likely agree. my dad cheeted on my mom with some dirty slut an i hate him for it.so way to go you just ruined your whole life. an i hope that she leaves you an you doe a sorry lonely man! because what you did was low an F***ED up! an i hope that you pay for it for the rest of your life!

  • Michelle
    Michelle

    Haha! Good for you Jon! Your wife is such a b*tch! Like mentioned earlier...you're one of few who could ever put up with her crap! 98% of men would have done the same...you can only be beaten down by a woman for so long until you rise up! Hopefully your "rise up" in the 23 year old makes Kate realize she better treat you better! I have no serious love for Kate, but she is married to the man. He chose her and married her, if he feels abused or nagged or whatever sh*t she is handing out well maybe he should SPEAK UP...an affair with a 23 year old doesn't solve problem, it only hurts his daughters...and his sons. What kind of role modelling is that?

  • Diva4life
    Diva4life

    I don't agree with cheating,from a man or woman.The situation is even worse because there are kids involved.Kate is a bitch towards Jon,she treats him like one of the kids,it's embarrassing.Jon was wrong to cheat,but it was time for him to "MAN UP"!

  • Caitlin
    Caitlin

    Haha! Good for you Jon! Your wife is such a b*tch! Like mentioned earlier...you're one of few who could ever put up with her crap! 98% of men would have done the same...you can only be beaten down by a woman for so long until you rise up! Hopefully your "rise up" in the 23 year old makes Kate realize she better treat you better! worst thing i have ever heard you are the reazl b*tch for even saying that about kate just go away and leave them alone

  • Caitlin
    Caitlin

    I can't wait to see the new show "John minus nine." This better not be true, i love jon and kate plus 8

  • Britt
    Britt

    Okay, first, the brother is saying "she's a nice girl" or whatever.. CLEARLY SHE KNOWS WHO HE IS. so no, she is definitely a homewrecking slut because she must know that he is married with 8 kids and his family has a show on NATIONAL TELEVISION. also, Jon is stupid for doing that because he should know that with him being famous there is a greater risk of being caught, and now his wife and children will be embarrassed and suffer because of his actions. I do not blame Kate, I blame Jon entirely. Even if she is a nag, there are better ways to deal with it than do be unfaithful and harm your family's image and probably scar your EIGHT kids for life. I just want to know why Deanna's brother was listening to her and Jon having sex...that's just weird!!

  • eveningsdove
    eveningsdove

    It's so terribly heart breaking to see any family go through such turmoil. Regardless of whose 'fault' it is. The truth is that it's difficult for families with no children and add to that the stress of a fulfilling relationship with each other. I am certain that everyone who listed comments here have gone through a similar situation. And if you have you wouldn't judge and if you haven't you shouldn't judge. It seems like that ever since their book was released and it was focused on Jesus and faith that their lives have been tested. Not everyone reading this believes in God and I understand that. But for us that do, it seems that everytime we try to praise God for what's he's done for us, it seems trouble comes back ten fold. So instead of commenting on who they are (or who the editors want them to be) That we should pray for them instead.

  • em
    em

    Okay, to all these guys who are praising Jon for cheating on Kate are really f*cking stupid. You're pretty much saying that it is okay for a man to have an affair, go against everything he promised to his wife, wreck his children's life, as well as his own, just because his wife nags a lot. Like big f*cking deal. The bottom line is, he made a promise to his wife and family to be there until the day he dies, but instead he's running off with some hussy as an easy way out. He's a p*ssy. ALL THOSE CHEATING MEN ARE CLEARLY JUST BOYS AND NOT READY FOR A REAL RELATIONSHIP! GROW UP AND STOP BEING AFRAID OF LIFE! FACE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES! You all need to get your heads examined.

  • Janet
    Janet

    OK I Just Watched seasons 1 thru 3 of Jon & Kate plus 8 and in EVERY episode she is always yelling at him..I feel bad for Jon and the Kids..OMG her kids are not alowed to get dirty..They are little kids ..wow..Kate you need counseling on how to be a Mother and a wife..I have been married 21 Years and i have 2 grown kids and if i EVER treated my husband the way you treat Jon I would hope he would leave me.. Jon get out while you can Buddy!!

  • elaine
    elaine

    Kate wont go roller bladding for fear of hurting her self and not being able to care for the children, but she will get on the back of a motorcycle without a helmet - DUHHHHHHHHHHH

  • Erin
    Erin

    No matter what people think of Kate, there is never a reason to cheat. And with them being in the spot light especially, to put you kids through all that. If he didn't want to be with kate anymore there is something called a divorce. Cheating on your spouse is NEVER acceptable.

  • Dee
    Dee

    Dear Lord does no one want to see them work this out. Everyone makes mistakes. Sorry to say his and hers are all over the tv. I am praying they can work this out and be stronger and that the children are kept out of this. Love the show but if losing the show would help the marriage good. God then Family then you....

  • Glenda
    Glenda

    Jon does everything. Good for you Jon if you had an affair. Kate is the most overbearing person I have ever seen. She treats him like a child. All she does is boss him around. Jon is a good catch. Any woman would be lucky to have him.

  • dfedgsd
    dfedgsd

    you guys are such ......

  • duke dog
    duke dog

    i love all of them and they are not gay or bitches

  • mary22
    mary22

    wow!!!i cnt believe he would do that. the brother says she is nice i got news for yuh buddy she is not she knew who he was &nd that he was married &nd had 8 kids.that is what pepole call a SLUT!!! i admit that kate is bitchy but still yuh married her yuh even renewed youre vowes!!!yuh just lyk ruined youre whole family up!!youre kids are not babys im sure they is going to hear about this!!!STUPID HOMEWRECKER

  • miss independent
    miss independent

    Cheating is wrong. It doesn't matter what you think of Kate. Any man who cheats on his wife especially the father of eight children is absoutely useless and doesn't deserve anyone's respect or support. Be a man and get a divorce than you can run around with whomever you want. THANK YOU! I don't care if she's a bitch, slut, nag, or whatever! If he was unhappy in the marriage then he should have divorced her before he went with that girl. He's on tv...what the hell was he thinking. Man! I loved that show. Now every time I see him, he makes me sick. He should have done the proper thing. You think he's gonna get any respect from any decent man by doing what he did? (notice, I said DECENT men and not douche bags here who think when he cheated on her, she got what she deserved--that goes for all the female bitches here too!) No one deserves that. He should have taken the safest and cleanest way out. A DIVORCE! He's an ass. Let's move on. Poor kids. My heart goes out to them. They shouldn't be caught up in something like this, not at such a vulnerable age. It's things like these that make a woman terrified to trust any man...

  • constance
    constance

    I feel as if they need to tell lies in order to protect the children. like one poster said they need to just quit now and try and salvage what they have. They are "hot" in the media and the media likes it when people are down. What is really sad is that the show has changed so much from them being so happy in the begining to now that they have the material things that they look like they are loud and snapping eaches heads off. At least in the beginning he and she would laugh about it, but now it's not funny any more and everything is so "promotional". What's worth more...money or a families happiness? I guess they need to get out their own scales. As for the so called affair, It is up to the husband and wife to decide what is best, but, they always should think of the children...no matter what.

  • Caitlyn
    Caitlyn

    Okay, first, the brother is saying "she's a nice girl" or whatever.. CLEARLY SHE KNOWS WHO HE IS. so no, she is definitely a homewrecking slut because she must know that he is married with 8 kids and his family has a show on NATIONAL TELEVISION. also, Jon is stupid for doing that because he should know that with him being famous there is a greater risk of being caught, and now his wife and children will be embarrassed and suffer because of his actions. I do not blame Kate, I blame Jon entirely. Even if she is a nag, there are better ways to deal with it than do be unfaithful and harm your family's image and probably scar your EIGHT kids for life. I agree! Entirely! John should not even have the guts to put jis kids through this, this is outragis, bogus! i love this show so much, i actually wanted to have sextuplets because of them. they were such an inspiration to me! divorice is very hard for kids trust me i dont think just bcause of this you should put all 8 of them through this!!!

  • steph
    steph

    My girlfriend got me to watch this show, and I liked it at first... but more and more I realized that Kate needs to calm the hell down. She's a bit of a hypocrite who constantly berates Jon in front of his children and then gets upset when he does the same to her. **** Kate, **** her attitude, **** her holier then thou bull****. That bitch needs to quit rolling her eyes and blaming her husband for not "watching" her kids constantly even though she's right the **** there too. Hell, if I were him, I'd be ****ing a hot teacher also. I saw some one mention they're christian, and should know better... really? Being christian makes people perfect? HA! seriously? Wasn't the mother that was going through postpartum depression and drowned all her kids in a pool christian also? i agree if she wasent bein such a bitch he wouldent be in a hot schoocl teacher she is bein unresinable and should get her ass kiked hope dont see u in the street bitch

  • faith
    faith

    GOD BLESS KATE.... AND JON TO FOR MAKING A HUGH MISTAKE CHEATING ON YOUR WIFE...SAD BUT THERE IS A GOD,AND THERE IS ALOT OF CHILDREN TO RAISE.

  • med school
    med school

    HOW DARE JON DO THAT TO KATE... THEY HAVE A FAMILY TOGETHER. ITS GOING TO TEAR THAT FAMILY APART AND THAT OTHER GIRL IS A HOMEWRECKING GOLDDIGGIN HOE

  • What a mess!!!
    What a mess!!!

    This whole thing is horrible. These poor kids. I see on television shows promoting her books and saying that the show was the only way for them to provide for the kids. What she does not understand is what price she has paid and what it will do to her children in the future. All these kids cannot go anywhere without people they don't know yelling their names and making assumptions about them based on the show. Look down the road 5 years to 10 years. If one of these kids gets as much as a speeding ticket, it will all over the tabloids. My mother raised 10 kids with no help. Our parents made very little, but you wouldn't no it. We all work hard and graduated from college. I believe these parents sold out these kids for a buck. It's so sad. If they really cared about these kids, they would stop the show and concentrate on raising these kids.

  • Precious
    Precious

    twice her age? he's 32 and she's 23. jason fail.i don't blame this dude. his wife is horrible and it seems like he's trapped in this marriage because of the reality tv show and his offspring. god help this guy once his girls enter their teens. imagine living with multiple kates. i feel really sorry for him. I agree u cannot blame alla the mistake to Jon. I am a wife too and i truely beleive that if u have a wife just like Kate im tellin you like to pull ur hair all the time. Besides that she have a big issue to her own Family she don't know how to appreciate things coz she's a kind of woman that like to b ein control and all the people will gonna look up on her.

  • Precious
    Precious

    Me and my husband watch this show sometimes coz u will be amazed who they raise 8 kids.:D As what i read or heared lately about kate & jon they are a "BIG" mess. I feel sorry for the kids because they are one who pay for what their parents doin. Kate is a very ambitious and very demanding woman u can tell that on her appearance. Jon need a little attention from his wife but going out to another woman @ 2:00am is not a good idea infact he make the situation worst. If both Kate & Jon really care about the kids they need to quit in Reality Show and start all over again....

  • ...
    ...

    Who knows if any of this is ture... look how much advertising the show is getting now... Lets hope if it comes out that all this is not true that Kate steps back and looks at how she treats people and how it makes people feel.. John is human and in an abusive relationship. If it comes down to all the rumors being true they both have to take the blame. No it isnt right to cheat..and it isnt right to treat people the way Kate does...

  • ...
    ...

    He chose to marry Kate and put up with her the way she is...what he is doing is so sad to the kids...I pray to Jesus Christ that my husband never does that to me (baby on the way in 4 weeks)also they are Christian he should know better! Guess you better not treat your hubby like sh*t like Kate does to John...

  • ...
    ...

    Jon, im very disappointed in you.... you obviously did not think about how this would affect your children, especially the twins... i whole world knows about and im sure kids will bring it up at their school... and on top of that, you just renewed your vows in Hawaii!!!!! How could you!!!!!!!!!!! How can Kate be so mean to him...the poor guy needs to feel loved and wanted too. How would you like to live with someone who treated you like a slave all the time?

  • lyssette
    lyssette

    Kate you should take this jerk to the cleaners!!! What an ass! how could he do this!! You should definately do the next series about you and your beautiful kids making it on your own without that DAM CHEATER!!!! and maybe you can find new love!!!

  • Jill
    Jill

    Amen! She is such a hag! There's not many guys who would put up with her sh*t! Then leave her. The women deals with eight children most of the time on her own. Love to see any of you do that and have them act as well as those children do. I don't care what her personality is like, that doesn't give anyone the excuse to cheat.

  • shanene
    shanene

    twice her age? he's 32 and she's 23. jason fail.i don't blame this dude. his wife is horrible and it seems like he's trapped in this marriage because of the reality tv show and his offspring. god help this guy once his girls enter their teens. imagine living with multiple kates. i feel really sorry for him. She is not horrible just cause she might nag and why feel sorry for him feel sorry for the kids!!

  • shanene
    shanene

    Jon can use whatever excuse he wants he shouldnt have cheated especaily knowing he is famous and it would come out i think he only thought with his d**k and never thought about who he was going to hurt in the process he is a jack ass!!!! The kids dont deserve that if it wasent working out with him and kate he should of been man enough to tell her and work something out instead of recking a mariage just because she might be a nag doesnt make it right!!!!!

  • Sarah
    Sarah

    Amen! She is such a hag! There's not many guys who would put up with her sh*t! Its women like you that have no class. U dont no kate and If some young girl comes buy n takes your man then im glade u have no right to judge her. u sound like a women that would do something like that way to go to cheer on a cheating husband. sorry but what u said made u look like a total LOSER!!! LOL....its bitches like you that want another womens men. Thats all I have to say to trash like you. have a sh*tty day. I hope when u do if you do get a man he cheats on you too...lol

  • Jenn
    Jenn

    Can't blame John...Kate is such a tyrant. I would turn gay if I had to be with her! He knew what he was marrying. He's a slut...

  • Sarah
    Sarah

    Jon, im very disappointed in you.... you obviously did not think about how this would affect your children, especially the twins... i whole world knows about and im sure kids will bring it up at their school... and on top of that, you just renewed your vows in Hawaii!!!!! How could you!!!!!!!!!!! This girl knew what she was doing so to me....she is a tramp, hoe, every name in the book. People say its not her fault but yes it is. she didnt have to have sex with him she wanted to and knew he had 8 kids. Thats a SKank all the way. I hope something like this happens to her when she gets a family...if she ever does.

  • Michele
    Michele

    As much of a hag as Kate is, I think Jon should grow up, stand up to her, get a divorce and stop pimping those poor kids out. He needs to get a real job. Now the hag will take him to the cleaners. He should have played it smarter. Weasel.

  • cara
    cara

    Cheating is wrong. It doesn't matter what you think of Kate. Any man who cheats on his wife especially the father of eight children is absoutely useless and doesn't deserve anyone's respect or support. Be a man and get a divorce than you can run around with whomever you want.

  • chas.
    chas.

    kate looks like she coulda had a nice ass...kateyou shoulda stayed in nursing school and enjoyedlife more..without all those nags... goin to the gym.havin a nice condo..boyfriend that thick blond hair of yours clean allthe time.not wearing those old lady sweatpants..and keepin that thing clean...what a california life you coulda had..smaller ass too!!

  • chas.
    chas.

    kate looks like she coulda had a nice ass...kate you shoulda stayed in nursing school and enjoyed life more..without all those nags...

  • leko
    leko

    Cheating on the spouse is cheating on the children. If this is true, the kids will most likely suffer long-term. Hope it was worth it to him. Emotional security is so fleeing anymore. If you cannot trust your parent, who do you trust?

  • noah
    noah

    I heard Kate is having an affair with Robert Pattison.

  • alavanille
    alavanille

    Can't blame John...Kate is such a tyrant. I would turn gay if I had to be with her! ditto (although I'm female.. so I guess I'd have to turn straight, in this case...). :P

  • Sissy
    Sissy

    Come on you guys!!!! I've seen their show, and Kate can be some of the things you mention here (negative ones), but I am a mother and sometimes, it is very stressful (and I have only two kids, let alone EIGHT), and you may behave negatively, especially with your husband, because certainly you don't want to do this to your kids, BUT THE POINT IS..... HE IS CHEATING ON HER!!!!, They have children together, people feel sorry for him, but it is Kate who stays at home and put up with them, all day long, I am sure both of them have their hands full, but she is by far the one getting the worse part in this deal. YOU ARE SO CHAUVINISTIC!!,I am not saying she is a saint or anything like it, she is just human,and she can drive him crazy; BUT THERE IS NOT EXCUSE FOR CHEATING ON YOUR WIFE!! He is just a douche with no principles, THEY ARE IN THIS TOGETHER!!! REMEMBER???

  • JonMinus9
    JonMinus9

    My girlfriend got me to watch this show, and I liked it at first... but more and more I realized that Kate needs to calm the hell down. She's a bit of a hypocrite who constantly berates Jon in front of his children and then gets upset when he does the same to her. **** Kate, **** her attitude, **** her holier then thou bull****. That bitch needs to quit rolling her eyes and blaming her husband for not "watching" her kids constantly even though she's right the **** there too. Hell, if I were him, I'd be ****ing a hot teacher also. I saw some one mention they're christian, and should know better... really? Being christian makes people perfect? HA! seriously? Wasn't the mother that was going through postpartum depression and drowned all her kids in a pool christian also?

  • jo
    jo

    I think its funny how some people still think marriage is sacred.anything can get married these days.He's not the first guy to come to his senses.I'm not saying theres no such thing as true love but, come on- if you look close enough you can almost see this chicks horns.Rolling your eyes and barking commands dont make you a good parent. It makes you a sucky wife!!

  • Tara
    Tara

    Anyone thinkin of the kids here?

  • djl
    djl

    Sounds more like a scam by the brother and sister than an actual story.

  • Mandi
    Mandi

    Kerry said: Haha! Good for you Jon! Your wife is such a b*tch! Like mentioned earlier...you're one of few who could ever put up with her crap! 98% of men would have done the same...you can only be beaten down by a woman for so long until you rise up! Hopefully your "rise up" in the 23 year old makes Kate realize she better treat you better!....you're a moron. Kerry- I agree!! Kate is a horrible person. A Wife and/or Husband should never talk down to each other. He's better off without her!!! As a mother myself, I feel for the kids, but a man and and/or woman can only take so much.

  • Sara
    Sara

    He chose to marry Kate and put up with her the way she is...what he is doing is so sad to the kids...I pray to Jesus Christ that my husband never does that to me (baby on the way in 4 weeks)also they are Christian he should know better!

  • marice
    marice

    Okay, first, the brother is saying "she's a nice girl" or whatever.. CLEARLY SHE KNOWS WHO HE IS. so no, she is definitely a homewrecking slut because she must know that he is married with 8 kids and his family has a show on NATIONAL TELEVISION. also, Jon is stupid for doing that because he should know that with him being famous there is a greater risk of being caught, and now his wife and children will be embarrassed and suffer because of his actions. I do not blame Kate, I blame Jon entirely. Even if she is a nag, there are better ways to deal with it than do be unfaithful and harm your family's image and probably scar your EIGHT kids for life. i completely agree with you.it's like why would you even think about doing that????he is gonna get it.get it from fans,family,used-to-be-friends,and especially the poparizzi.JON YOU SUCK HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO YOUR ADORABLE 8 CHILDREN?????????

  • amy
    amy

    EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!THAT'S REVOLTING!!!WHY JON WHY????????????THAT IS SOOO MESSED UP AND WRONG!BUT I GUESS I CAN SEE IT FROM BOTH SIDES I MEAN KATE CAN BE A BEYOTCH SOMETIMES BUT SERIOUSLY MAN,WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT TO YOUR KIDS?THEY MUST BE REALLY CONFUSED AND SCARED.JON YOU ARE A MAN WHORE!!!!!

  • m
    m

    # mona I can’t believe what a selfish a** Jon turned out to be. Anyone who can go out and ruin their family like that does not deserve them. If he was unhappy he should have gotten out. What a selfish disgusting human being. I hope he loses everything. His wife, children, money, everything. Was it worth it Jon? I hope the little tramp he was with loses her job. I know I wouldn't want someone like that teaching my third grader. Teachers are suppose to have morals.

  • tracimac
    tracimac

    Kate has the same haircut as Adam Lambert....

  • stallown3d
    stallown3d

    It's sad there's such a media spectacle to this whole thing. 30 years ago a C-list celebrity could openly cheat on his wife without fear of video surveillance and paparazzi.

    Sigh... those were the good old days.

  • Kerry
    Kerry

    ....you're a moron. You're jealous you can't get c*ck!

  • tigertaint
    tigertaint

    twice her age? he's 32 and she's 23. jason fail. i don't blame this dude. his wife is horrible and it seems like he's trapped in this marriage because of the reality tv show and his offspring. god help this guy once his girls enter their teens. imagine living with multiple kates. i feel really sorry for him.

  • noah
    noah

    I hope this comment thread turns into a Man vs. Woman battle.

    GENDER WAR 2009!

  • Liz
    Liz

    Haha! Good for you Jon! Your wife is such a b*tch! Like mentioned earlier...you're one of few who could ever put up with her crap! 98% of men would have done the same...you can only be beaten down by a woman for so long until you rise up! Hopefully your "rise up" in the 23 year old makes Kate realize she better treat you better! ....you're a moron.

  • charliemurphy
    charliemurphy

    After sending each other $3 shots (classy), the two began having a sexual relationship. Cheap booze: that's how all my sexual relationships begin. How do then end? Usually in the butt.

  • Kerry
    Kerry

    Haha! Good for you Jon! Your wife is such a b*tch! Like mentioned earlier...you're one of few who could ever put up with her crap! 98% of men would have done the same...you can only be beaten down by a woman for so long until you rise up! Hopefully your "rise up" in the 23 year old makes Kate realize she better treat you better!

  • Liz
    Liz

    Okay, first, the brother is saying "she's a nice girl" or whatever.. CLEARLY SHE KNOWS WHO HE IS. so no, she is definitely a homewrecking slut because she must know that he is married with 8 kids and his family has a show on NATIONAL TELEVISION. also, Jon is stupid for doing that because he should know that with him being famous there is a greater risk of being caught, and now his wife and children will be embarrassed and suffer because of his actions. I do not blame Kate, I blame Jon entirely. Even if she is a nag, there are better ways to deal with it than do be unfaithful and harm your family's image and probably scar your EIGHT kids for life.

  • Jason
    Jason

    How about "Kate plus 8 minus her douche abg husband", you ***holes. Maybe Kate is a "tyrant" because Jon is too immature to raise a family without being micro-managed. Kate...a little bitter? Haha. You like the other Kate are probably major hags and pushed your man into other women's arms. Kate = Losers.[

  • kate
    kate

    How about "Kate plus 8 minus her douche abg husband", you ***holes. Maybe Kate is a "tyrant" because Jon is too immature to raise a family without being micro-managed.

  • Jason
    Jason

    Can't blame John...Kate is such a tyrant. I would turn gay if I had to be with her! Amen! She is such a hag! There's not many guys who would put up with her sh*t!

  • Shawn
    Shawn

    I can't wait to see the new show "John minus nine." I liked that line better when Joel McHale used it.

  • Ash
    Ash

    Jon, im very disappointed in you.... you obviously did not think about how this would affect your children, especially the twins... i whole world knows about and im sure kids will bring it up at their school... and on top of that, you just renewed your vows in Hawaii!!!!! How could you!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Ace
    Ace

    Can't blame John...Kate is such a tyrant. I would turn gay if I had to be with her!

  • Gutter
    Gutter

    I can't wait to see the new show "John minus nine."

 
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