Michelle Williams & Ryan Gosling: Sex Scenes Are “Toxic”

Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling open up about their (legal) addictions and difficulty filming sex scenes in the latest issue of W magazine.

The indie darlings, who co-star in the much-anticipated Blue Valentine, look drop-dead sexy on the cover of the magazine. But looks can be deceiving when it comes to feigning attraction. The two talented actors opened up about “messy” sex scenes and the difficulty with making things look, uh, accurate on screen.

Michelle on her frustrations with filming sex scenes:

We never rehearsed anything, and those were really dark days. We shot the beginning of our relationship first, and it was fun and alive. Then we did the sex scenes and it was…toxic. Ryan and I had stopped relating to each other as Ryan and Michelle. Those scenes took forever. I had a long drive from set to home each night, and I would roll down all the windows and turn up the music as loud as I could and hang my head out the window like a dog and scream. It was my escape.

Ryan on wanting to maintain honesty in love scenes:

You mean the trying-not-to-have-sex sex scene? It was hard…a lot of times actors can trick people into thinking something is happening when it’s not happening, and we had to call ourselves out on anything that didn’t feel honest. Actors become very professional and proficient about watching out for each other’s light and not stepping on each other’s lines. All of these things are artificial, and you have to strip that away if you’re going to achieve a sense of intimacy. In real life sex is messy, and we wanted to get at that wonderful messiness.

Michelle on her Internet addiction:

I actively stay away from reading about myself. But I am a slave to my computer. I don’t think that’s good—would Tolstoy even have written Anna Karenina if there were an Internet? I hate myself when I e-mail. E-mail is like a dopamine hit—you wait for it and then you get it. I gave up my computer during my last movie, Meek’s Cutoff, which is a period piece about a woman on the Oregon Trail. I took to letter writing. My girlfriends got some great letters. But when it ended I was back on e-mail. I’m an addict.

What do you think of Michelle and Ryan’s awkwardness with sex scenes? Are you as addicted to the internet as Michelle? Share your thoughts in the comments below.