Evelyn Lozada Has Advice For Rihanna, Chris Brown

The reality star and domestic violence victim tells CB! her advice and warnings -- specifically, for a couple of very famous pals.

Evelyn Lozada gives advice to Rihanna

Evelyn Lozada may not have stood by her man, but she’s definitely standing by her woman.

The reality star is coming to the defense of her friend Rihanna since the “Stay” singer made it official that she’s back together with controversial ex Chris Brown, the man who infamously and brutally assaulted her in 2009.

“Their incident happened years ago and he’s [Chris] been though a lot because of it as well. And if he’s changed and gotten the help that he was supposed to get, I don’t see anything wrong with it,” Lozada told Celebuzz in an exclusive interview.

And Lozada knows all too well what it’s like to be involved in a violent relationship.

The Basketball Wives star filed for divorce last September from husband, former football player Chad Johnson, after just 41 days of marriage when he was arrested and charged with battery for hitting her and leaving her with serious head injuries.

But even though her romance ended with her being single again, she says she won't judge Rihanna for sticking with Brown through thick and thin.

“I feel like if it works for you, then great. If he’s gotten help and changed then even better,” she said.

“That’s her life and I feel like that’s another reason why I love and respect Rihanna.

"She doesn’t fall into what she thinks that she do for the people. She lives her life," she added. "It’s hard to do that when so many people have an opinion. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Nobody knew that I was dealing with this.

“I hope he’s [Chris] changed and he respects her and loves her and obviously will never go down that path again. I think he’s learned his lesson.”

She also says the public has the wrong perception of the hit R&B maker.

“The misconceptions are that she’s just this wild and crazy because that’s all people get to see. But I’ve been with her behind closed doors. She’s amazing,” Lozada said.

“I mean, this is the same person I see hug and kiss her cleaning lady. She’s loving and super super sweet and amazing to me and my daughter," she added. "I think people put so much pressure being a role model and that’s a lot of pressure when you’re just trying to live your life.”

Still, she does have some advice for Rihanna, should red flags resurface.

“You know the signs and if you see him regressing you know that look in the eye when things go a little left here. My advice would be, ‘Hey, if you see the sign you immediately leave.’”

Rihanna, 24, confirmed her reconciliation with Brown, 23, last month in Rolling Stone after months of speculation and mysterious tweets and Instagram photos of the twosome.

And she has no regrets about giving the R&B star a second chance. 

“I wasn’t going to let anybody’s opinion get in the way of that,” she told the mag. “Even if it’s a mistake, it’s my mistake. After being tormented for so many years, being angry and dark, I’d rather just live my truth and take the backlash. I can handle it.”

 

Although Lozada and Johnson aren’t on speaking terms at the moment, and won’t be getting back together, the 37-year-old mother still holds out hope that, like Brown and Rihanna, they can at least be friends.

Someday, anyway.

“I truly believe people can change," Lozada said, who's turned her negative into a positive by channeling her future into a new clothing line and as the face of a new campaign for youthH20.

“I don’t have any ill will toward him. I’m not bitter. And I do truly believe that one day we’ll be able to be friends, just not right now."

Do you agree with Lozada's advice for Rihanna? What do you want to say to Rihanna? Tell us your advice in the comments.

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  • Suzette
    Suzette

    You are so right about that bully Evelyn!! I'm at a loss for words as to why anyone would want advice from her. She is a disgrace as a mother and is sending the wrong message to her daughter. Rihanna wants to be too much of a "bad girl" and is doing whatever she feels makes her look like one. So I don't get Lozada saying the " public"s misconception" of Rihanna. It's what she portrays that the public sees. I do hope CB gets his act together because he is a talented artist who should stay away from Rihanna.

  • joann
    joann

    I am still trying to get over the fact that anyone would even want an opinion from Lozada. She's as violent as Chris Brown always trying to fight with some other woman but when she was the victim of violence, it was a major problem. Why do people accept behavior in themselves that they wont' accept in others. She's just not anyone who I respect enough to even ask for advice. And no, Chris Brown hasn't changes, isn't going to change and will probably fade into the California prison system in time.