Selena Gomez Says ‘You Can’t Help Who You Date’

Selena Gomez says she recently discovered that, ha, no, dating isn’t all that easy, especially when you have to do it in the spotlight.

The 20-year-old singer-actress — who may or may not be back with Justin Bieber, depending on how you interpret Instagram — elaborated on the topic in the June issue of InStyle:

It’s uncomfortable that everywhere I go, people know. I don’t like that. But Justin and I never really focused on the attention. You can’t help who you date. So I wouldn’t swear off that or say that’s what I want again. I don’t know. I’m a kid, and a breakup is normal. I have to go through the emotions and feel it out. I’m doing my own thing, being with my friends, and he’s doing very well too.

Gomez also says she’s written a song about her much-publicized breakup, which she thinks Bieber will enjoy.

“That’s the most personal track on the record, for sure. I think it’s a sweet way of releasing it. It’s not an aggressive approach to what people are probably expecting. I’m sure he’ll love it too,” she said.