Selena Gomez Says ‘You Can’t Help Who You Date’

| May 8, 2013 - 9:28 am

Selena Gomez says she recently discovered that, ha, no, dating isn’t all that easy, especially when you have to do it in the spotlight.

The 20-year-old singer-actress — who may or may not be back with Justin Bieber, depending on how you interpret Instagram — elaborated on the topic in the June issue of InStyle:

It’s uncomfortable that everywhere I go, people know. I don’t like that. But Justin and I never really focused on the attention. You can’t help who you date. So I wouldn’t swear off that or say that’s what I want again. I don’t know. I’m a kid, and a breakup is normal. I have to go through the emotions and feel it out. I’m doing my own thing, being with my friends, and he’s doing very well too.

Gomez also says she’s written a song about her much-publicized breakup, which she thinks Bieber will enjoy.

“That’s the most personal track on the record, for sure. I think it’s a sweet way of releasing it. It’s not an aggressive approach to what people are probably expecting. I’m sure he’ll love it too,” she said.