Amber Rose Admits She’s a ‘Former Slut-Shamer’

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It takes a big woman to own up to her mistakes. It takes even a bigger woman to confront her haters.

Though Amber Rose acknowledges that she’s a “former slut-shamer,” she also wants you to know that she’s in no way “asking” for it when she’s out in the club or posting half-naked selfies. On her recent appearance on OWN’s It’s Not You, It’s Men, the model flawlessly dismantles the notion of victim-blaming after Tyrese and Rev Run suggests that some women may be seeking sexual attention when the put out a certain “energy” to the crowd.

“If I’m laying down with a man butt-naked and his condom is on, and I say, ‘You know what? No. I don’t want to do this. I changed my mind,’ that means no. That means fucking no. That’s it,” she says. “When I say no, it means no.”

When someone on the panel brings up the saying “dress how you want to be addressed,” a riled-up Rose shuts it all down.

“Oh, boo,” she cries when some members of the audience starts capping in agreement. “No. That’s not realistic. Stop it.”

“If I want to wear a short skirt or a tank top, and I’m at the club and I’m having fun with my friends and I feel sexy, I’m not DTF,” she explains. “I didn’t come here to have sex. I didn’t come here to hook up with nobody. I came out here with my girls and I just feel pretty. I’m not ‘asking for’ nothing.”

Previously, the 32-year-old penned an essay for Time magazine about slut-shaming after her ex, Kanye West, attempted to publicly humiliate her by bringing up her past as a stripper.

“It’s about loving who you are, owning who you are and knowing that it’s O.K. to live your life how you want to live it. We’re all human, which means we’re not all perfect,” she wrote. “So please: Before you judge someone—especially another woman—put yourself in her shoes and also look at your past.”

Mic. Dropped.

Click through the gallery below to see Rose’s girls’ day out with her mom.