Sometimes your BF can push you into being an obsessive control freak. Don’t worry, it’s not your fault : ) Everything would be perfectly fine if he knew how to clean correctly, help you around the house and understand your basic needs. He is the reason that you have road rage, not your need to control everything. If everything was done correctly, you wouldn’t have the need to control. Try a little meditation, it might help you win an argument about this with bae!