Kate Gosselin

The marriage was slightly average after the infants became toddlers. Once Kate had her tummy tuck and make over. It gave her extreme confidence and extremely more control. Jon was an ideal father. After work he would take on a whole role of responsablity with the children dressing them for outings, making sure they were safe in the car seats, take them to the potty, prepating them for dinner at the table, brushing their teeth, bathing, preparing them to go to bed. He made them happy with his childhood experinces. Plus he had a "Honey to do list" for around the house. Kate was never satisfied she always expected more from him. Kate was very mentally and physically abusive to Jon. No respect for men at all. When anything went wrong it was Jons fault. However, This did not at anytime gave them permission to cheat on one another. The past is the past it is now time to forgive for the sake of the kids. Both need severe therapy to save the family. They have to want to accept the assistance. Jon looks like he needs a new wardrobe the jeans are so worn out. The boot style is not for him, the straight leg jeans are. Kate has so many outfits I haven't seen her wear anything twice with multiple bikinis. The earrings are so tacky long a dangelie! Then she has an ugly habit of touching and playing with them during interviews. It has not entered her mind that without one another the show is not going to work. Their whole life style is going to change with less income. Which the kids have been accustomed to living. The one most closest to Jon is Cara, Joel and I think Leyaha! They will have more problems adjusting to the seperation. All of them will but these three will hurt more. Sad that Kate is so materialistic and greedy. But she lived in an low income family. Hopefully they will reunite for the sake of the kids.

I just feel so bad for both of them, as they are apparently so stupid and self centered they do not see what they have done to themselves and their children.

Too bad for all of them. Definitely could not handle fame.

I don't feel sorry for either one of these losers. The people I feel sorry for are these children. The little ones have worked every day of their five years so mommy could have a flat tummy and a died beaver on her head and daddy could get hairplugs and fly to France.

Jon is by far the better parent. He did everything for this hateful woman and she just gave him the worst of herself for 10 years. I suspect she played the little sweetheart to get him and then once she had what she wanted, money and fame, she wanted out. I want TLC to get this show off the air and maybe the kids can have a few years of semi-normalcy.

i feel really bad for her yeah she was controlling but he knew how she was when he married her, i know how men are. i just think he's havin a mid-life crisis and he's gonna realize his mistakes but it will be too late.

I am sick and tired of hearing how "bad" Jon has it!!! He is nothing but a BIG baby!!! He needs to grow up and act like a father of 8 kids. Everything was fine when Kate was staying at home and doing the majority of the parenting. Before Jon quit his job his idea of "watching the kids" was to put them in the basement and shut the door. Things became a problem when Jon had to do his fair share of parenting. Kate had to run a household with 8 kids, I have 2 kids and I am not even half as organized as she is. Things have to be on schedule or you will have nothing but chaos. If Kate were a man we would not even be having this discussion. It is the same old thing be a strong man you are a hero be a strong woman your a bitch. I believe that Jon is acting like a 16 year old kid with money and he needs to get his house in order and GROW UP!!!

Jon is immature and really stupid! No example at all for children, would be a better example and father if he just disappeared. Kate needs to get back to being a mom and home maker like she was in the beginning of the shows. Organic cooking, parenting techniques, etc. Enough of outings and just finding ways to spend money, and not be home.
Marta

GOOD LUCK KATE HOPE YOU GET YOUR TALK SHOW AND ALSO HOPE THAT YOU BLOW THEM OUT OF THE WATER WITH IT I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN THE WORLD YOU GO GET THEM!!!!
JULIE A BIG FAN AND A PERSON WHO HAS BEEN WHERE YOU ARE AND I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL