According to Access Hollywood, the New York Yankees ballplayer, 33, is bailing on spending Thanksgiving in Miami with his 36-year-old wife Cynthia—whom he's in the process of divorcing—and their daughters Natasha, 4, and Ella, 1.

Instead, he'll apparently be hosting his girlfriend Madonna, 50, her daughter Lourdes, 12, and his and Madge's mutual manager Guy Oseary, 36, at his Manhattan apartment.

“My 6-foot-3, 220-pound soul-less, soon-to-be ex-husband is abandoning his kids on Thanksgiving to be with Madonna… She called and he ran on her command back to New York City . . . Gross!” Cynthia allegedly wrote in an e-mail to a friend, cites Access Hollywod.

The message from Cynthia is said to have described the Material Matron in "not so nice terms."

Rodriguez filed for divorce from his wife of over five years in July.