Fitness queen Paltrow, who has two children with Martin (Apple, 4, and Moses, 2), says that their strict “no red carpet appearances together” policy might lead people to believe they’re not together, but “so be it.”

“It doesn’t behoove us to be a public couple,” the celebrity blogger says in the interview, according to People.

“He certainly doesn’t want to be that. We’ve never ever walked down a red carpet together, we never will. If people think that that means we’re not together, then – ha ha ha! – so be it.”

Martin, 31, has also recently publicly denied that his marriage is in trouble.

Paltrow says that Martin was her rock after the 2002 death of her father, director and writer Bruce Paltrow.

“I’m amazed he stuck with me [at the time her dad died], because I was a wreck. I can’t believe that he did.”

Paltrow will be a presenter at the 51st annual Grammys this weekend, where her husband’s band is nominated seven times, including nods for Song and Record of the Year for their single “Viva La Vida.”

Perhaps they can relax their hands-off on the red carpet policy just this once? It could be a big night for them and it would be nice to have a photo together as a souvenir.

Martin, bundled up in a down jacket against the cold, went for a slippery slide with his and Gwyneth’s eldest child.

Martin’s band Coldplay has been accused in a recently filed lawsuit by virtuoso guitarist Joe Satriani of ripping off his 2004 song “If I Could Fly” for their Grammy-nominated hit single “Viva La Vida.”

Tongues are wagging that Chris and Gwyneth’s marriage is hurting. A recent report in the New York Daily News had Gwyneth following in BFF Madonna’s footsteps by filing for divorce.

Paltrow was recently linked with billionaire Jeff Soffer, 41, and was said to have spent Thanksgiving at his Indian Creek Island mansion in Florida.

“Gwyneth has confided to friends she and Chris are taking a break,” a source said. “Jeff is crazy about her.”

Sounds like Martin could use a few more trips down that slide.

For last week’s installment of her lifestyle newsletter Goop, Paltrow disclosed the keys to her Thanksgiving kingdom, from cooking for various party sizes, the perfect sweet potato and even the right moment to pause and reflect.

We at Celebuzz have decided to help with a little recapitulation, as there are only 24 hours left before the big day.

“I love when everyone comes together and celebrates the idea of gratitude, something we all mean to do every day, but seem to lose sight of most of the time,” waxes Mrs. Chris Martin, “I also love the cooking – the days of planning and chopping and basting.”

Which is exactly what she’ll be doing for Martin and their two kids, four year-old Apple and Moses, 2.

Included in her catalogue of chopping and basting: inventive turkey burgers with cranberry ketchup for a party of two, delicious roasted sweet potatoes with orange and spice as well as caramelized brussel sprouts and classic bread stuffing—all of which you can find here.

More important to Paltrow, however, than turkey poundage or timing?

“No matter what type of meal you are having, you take a moment to think about how much you do have,” she writes, “health, love, friendship, passion, perspective, appreciation, intellect, reason, kindness…and reflect on how you can share more of it with others.”

And as an after dinner treat for tomorrow, be sure to check those inboxes for a copy of Goop. In her special Thanksgiving Day edition, she’ll be