The relationship between Bachelorette couple Emily Maynard and Jef Holm is still uncertain — even after the pair were spotted going for a romantic meal together, Celebuzz has learned.

Two months after the couple announced their engagement was off, they dined out at 5Church restaurant in Charlotte, North Carolina, with Emily dressed to kill and flirting up a storm with her former beau.

After their private meal for two, the pair headed to Connelly’s bar for drinks, but according to a source close to the couple, the water company CEO is still trying to figure out how he really feels about his former fiancée.

“Jef is still making up his mind about Emily because he was genuinely hurt when the relationship ended,” the insider told Celebuzz.

“All reality relationships are particularly difficult, and the truth is very few go the distance. It is going to be tough for them to make this thing work long-term because it will require a lot of sacrifices on each side.”

The couple has been involved in a rollercoaster relationship since Holm, 28, proposed to Maynard, 26, in July after he presented her with a stunning $150,000 diamond ring on the finale of the hit ABC reality show.

Since then, there have been multiple allegations of cheating on each side, including reports that Holm did not approve of the way Maynard was raising her 7-year-old daughter, Ricki Hendrick.

But another potential roadblock to them getting back together has been Holm’s reported new relationship with 23-year-old New Orleans journalism student Katianna Bear.

The pair posted photographs of themselves during a day trip to San Diego Zoo alongside Holm’s Bachelorette finalist friend Arie Luyendyk Jr., as reported by Wetpaint.

Holm and Bear also reportedly hooked up in Los Angeles while Maynard attended the wedding of fellow reality couple Ashley Herbert and J.P. Rosenbaum on Dec. 1.

According to our source, Holm is all too happy to keep his options open until he figures out if he really wants to get back with Maynard long-term.

“Jef and Katianna originally met at a Saints football game in New Orleans, and they both really hit it off because they had a lot in common,” the source said.

“Katianna is a fun and beautiful woman. However, he has a connection and history with Emily. But he knows that he can’t have them both.”

“Over the past few weeks, he spent time with Katianna. And now Emily is back on the scene, so it looks like he has some decisions to make pretty soon.”

What do you think? Should Jef get back together with Emily  or pursue Katianna? Let us know your thoughts, below.

Trista and Ryan Sutter had the first Bachelorette wedding in December 2003. Now, nine years later, Ashley Hebert and J.P. Rosenbaum will be the second couple to walk down the aisle on national TV.

Celebuzz caught up with Trista while she was at the airport on Friday — was she on her way to join in on the wedding celebration?

“Maybe, I can’t divulge,” she said with a coy laugh.

“I think they are adorable . . . I’ve met Ashley and J.P. a couple times and she’s a sweetheart.”

Sutter even relayed some wedding planning advice to the blushing bride.

“We talked about our experience and the people I loved working with [for our wedding].”

Her one regret on having her big day in front of millions watching from home?

“They [ABC] gave us the option to have a videographer and we didn’t take them up on it! I do wish we had someone who had taken a home video that wasn’t available to the rest of the world,” Sutter said.

“It was the best night of my life . . . well, besides my 40th birthday party,” she said of the milestone she celebrated on Oct. 28.

Hebert and Rosenbaum, who got engaged in Fiji on the Bachelorettefinale in August 2011, are set to tie the knot on Saturday.

“I’ve been so excited to follow their relationship and out of all the couples, I always hoped that they would make it,” Sutter said.

As for her own marriage, the mother-of-two said staying out of the public eye in Vail, Colo. has helped with maintaining longevity.

“Marriage is work and if you don’t put work into it, it’s not going to work . . . Ryan and I are in the best place we’ve ever been. We’re very, very happy and focused on each other,” she added.

Ashley Hebert and J.P. Rosenbaum’s wedding will air on ABC on Dec. 16.

Do you have a favorite ‘Bachelorette?’ What kind of relationship advice do you have for Ashley and J.P.? Weigh in below.

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