Bottom line? You bang the cougar….you don’t marry it. Because it will never work out in the long run. Which sux because if a man can marry a younger woman….a woman should be able to marry a younger man. But men are pigs…they think with their penis…and eventually will move on to a newer model. I would never get married period….I think it’s strange and unnatural…and for sure I wouldn’t marry a guy 16 years younger.