Bottom line? You bang the cougar....you don't marry it. Because it will never work out in the long run. Which sux because if a man can marry a younger woman....a woman should be able to marry a younger man. But men are pigs...they think with their penis...and eventually will move on to a newer model. I would never get married period....I think it's strange and unnatural...and for sure I wouldn't marry a guy 16 years younger.