I realise they are dance-wear shoes and I don't think annoye in their right mind would produce high heels for toddlers for everyday wear. but is letting a 3 y o wear high heels ALL the time appropriate or healthy? I doubt it. I have a 3,5 y o daughter I adore too, and I love to dress her in pretty clothes and stuff but if she requested high heels and make-up to wear outside on everyday basis I'd simply tell her she's too little for that. she can understand a meaning of the word 'no'. bare arms and legs or no hat while it's freezing cold outside also meets with the 'no'. I just don't get Kate and Tom's parenting methods, that's all.