Katie, I totally agree with you (and Mel). Infertility has also tghaut me to be a lot less judgemental. You really never do know what goes on behind closed doors, and you certainly never know what's going on with someone's BODY. Hell, I don't even know WTH is going on with mine half the time; it's certainly not my business how others deal with theirs!And sure...there need to be some standards in society; most are considered LAWS: don't harm children/animals, don't steal, etc. But how long someone is married? Not my concern.