Just because you can be closed minded and judge people does NOT mean you should. That’s like saying a gay man deserves to be criticized for coming out of the closet. He doesn’t have to admit to everyone he’s gay, so since he does he deserves to be judged and treated poorly which is ignorant. I was speaking about CHELSEA and the episode before the most recent where she explains how hard it is to be a single mom. Next time get your facts straight. How you treat and love your husband has absolutely nothing to do with how you treat and love your children. Spending a few hours on yourself does NOT make her a bad mother. She is constantly with her children or working. She makes all of her children’s doctors appointments and attends them all. She questions the doctors to make sure her children are okay. Not being a very good wife does NOT equal not being a very good mother. If that was the case my mother would be a terrible one because she didn’t marry my father. She did nothing that was hypocritical. She gives her children the majority of her time, she makes sure they are in a safe, clean environment, plays with them and makes money for them. She has taken her responsibilities very seriously. They have been broken up for a good while and I am sure she did not get pregnant while she was with her husband. Even if she did that does not make her a bad mother. Again, how she treats/loves her husband does not equal how she treats/loves her children. I do not see how in any way I am a hypocrite. You are most definitely NOT a realist because if you were you would realize that a husband is completely different from a child. She does not have to be good to him in order to be good to her children. If you can talk about one doctors appointment she missed then maybe you have something to back up what you are saying but I doubt you can find ANY way to point out that she’s a bad mother. You can say she’s a bad wife all you want because cheating is wrong in any case. If you are unhappy with someone you should leave them before you cheat. But again that has nothing to do with her babies. Saying she’s spending time cheating instead of being with her kids is basically saying that if she goes on a date with her husband and leaves her children with a babysitter she’s a bad mother. Which would make half the parents in the world bad parents.