While I have great respect for Simon's skills in the music industry, I'm a little concerned he is going about fatherhood this way. I may be TOTALLY off the mark here (who's knows) but I do NOT think these two will ever marry. They will co-exist separately where this child is concerned. Simon enjoys being uncommitted WAY to much for any real serious relationship to come about between them. This was merely physical for them both. If the woman is expecting or wanting more from Simon? ..she's in for a let down. IN the end it's not me who has to live with the situation. I only hope Simon and this woman do right by this child, and give the child the widest, strongest network of love and support he/she will need.