i am not a marc anthony fan, but am sure not a j-lo fan. this woman is nothing but pure trash in the middle of a midlif crisis. she is middle aged, time to grow up and realize it. quit chasing after these kids young enough to be HER kids !! concentrate on her own children, she has two precious babies that need a real mother not a trash mom. then concentrate on her career. kids first, career second, and leave the teenagers alone, find a man your own age to get involved in.