“Being shot with Otis is so perfect because any portrait of me right now isn’t complete without my identity as a mother being a part of that,” the Rush actress said.
“[I] wouldn’t be this person without that first marriage. I really grew up with my first husband. Now I’m in a much wiser, more centered place in life. I think if we can see people in our lives as chapters, we have a much healthier perspective about the whole thing. It’s like it had to happen the way it happened. Jason and I lived two blocks away from each other for years and never met.” Olivia married Tao when she was just 19 years old, but the two split in 2011 after 8 years of marriage.
Now, the stunning New York native is happily not-yet-married to fellow actor Sudeikis, 38, and although the two do plan to tie the knot, Wilde is in no hurry. “We’re engaged, but no specific plans yet. We just have to find the time to put it together,” the Tron: Legacy star told Glamour. “In many ways, a child is more of a commitment. We are fully committed and really happy as a family. And there’s no definition of the ‘normal family’ anymore. Kids today are growing up with so many different definitions of family. I guess what I’m saying is that I don’t feel any pressure to do it. But I think it will be really fun.”
The September issue of Glamour featuring Olivia Wilde, hits newsstands September August 12th.
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